Approaches
We used a variety of approaches and methods of therapy based on the individual needs and goals of each client.
The approaches we utilize at Sage Mind are trauma-informed and help build insight into our difficult patterns. We consider how they show up and create challenges in our lives. As we understand more about them, we can understand where they came from, how to heal from them, and conceptualize a different future state.
When a couple is in conflict, the partner is often viewed as the problem. Through our work with EFT, each partner learns that the true problem is the negative cycle of interaction, i.e. the ‘what happens between us.’ We work on reorienting our perspective of this cycle by understanding the emotional experience of our partner.
After successful EFT, couples better navigate conflict by leaning into their partners and relying on the connection to provide support. The goal of EFT is for each partner to view the relationship as a source of security, and to see the other person as helpful and supportive in regulating difficult feelings and experiences.